Talk Less - Listen More…on Church Conferences
Posted on January 6th, 2009 @ 11:56 am
One of my themes for this year is “Talk less. Listen more.” I mentioned it in the post about an author’s responsibility in the publishing industry and I think it’s a pretty universal idea that can be applied almost everywhere, including this blog.
As such, I’ll be asking you questions specifically designed to get your feedback. My friend Brody has a “Dear Christian Music Industry” category and it’s been a great way for him and his readers to communicate to the industry influencers who quietly lurk on his blog. Its my hope that a few of the “Church Industry” (I shuddered as I typed that phrase) influencers will lurk around and see these posts and your responses.
And what does that mean? You’re now the influencers. Actually, you’ve always been.
You buy the tickets.
Yesterday, I twittered about church conferences. I’ve recently had a few people comment to me that they go to conferences held at churches and leave feeling inadequate because they don’t have the budget, staff, or other resources to “do” what these churches do. I realize that people have the responsibility how to respond to the conferences they attend, but it seems like we’re naturally wired to compare and contrast what we see with what we are.
Here are some of the responses I received from twitter:
I agree, money, time, and most seem to be entertainment focus, verses step by step insight in how to truly grow and motivate your ministry
I always walk away from conferences or church networks feeling like I suck. I have to really fight it.
Most discouraging thing about church confs–the resulting “copy cat” syndrome. “Let’s do what they’re doing!” = Dead thinking.
That’s part of the reason I’m pumped about events like @innovate3 and @theideacamp. More conversations/interaction.
I’m not leaving feeling inadequate, as much as tired of them and not finding the majority of them very helpful anymore.
The conf. thing for me has less to do with feeling inadequite & more w/ boredom over the same white guys saying the same thing.
I like conferences for inspiration and ideas but rarely do I find much insight for practical application
I go to a HUGE one every year and for the past 3 years I feel that same way. Its tough. Exciting stuff but tough.
I think Church Conferences are out of control and hopefully will be a thing of the past.
So what sayeth thou? No doubt, I have been to my fair share of “this is really amazing and inspiring” conferences as well as “that light set up cost more than a Boeing 737.”
If you could tell anyone in conference world anything, now’s your chance!
(I hope they’ll listen.)
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