Texas, Our Texas
Posted on March 26th, 2006 @ 10:45 am

Well, we are here! We pulled in close to 3pm Saturday, got our keys and had the guys from Two Men & a Truck unload us. My family came out and hung around for a couple hours before making the 80 mile trip back to their house in Mansfield.

The weather here is beautiful and we have already met a few of our neighbors and talked with them a little bit. Stan lives up above us and is originally from Cleveland, retired and single; Andy & his family live across the breezeway, but only for another month as their house burned down and they’ll be moving when their new house is ready.

Today we are going to go by IKEA to get some necessities, and then down to Mansfield to do some laundry as our washer and dryer won’t be delivered until Wednesday.

Emotionally, everything hit as we drove across the last few miles of Oklahoma but once we got into the Metro area, I felt like I was at home again. For those of you who don’t know, I grew up in West Texas & spent 1996-2001 here in DFW.

I start my new job at Lake Pointe on Tuesday! And I uploaded some pictures of our going away party. You can tell which ones were taken earlier in the night because I look awake, but by 10pm, I started looking exhausted, as did Chris. You can see them here.

Play time is over now…must start being productive!


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Texas

Oklahoma is OK with Me
Posted on March 25th, 2006 @ 2:41 am

Friends, Romans, Countrymen - lend me your eyes….

Welp, we got off to a late start leaving. I THOUGHT we had gotten rid of so much, but yet we still managed to fill up the 16′ truck & Rodeo completely, with Chris’ dad taking the leftovers to be picked up at a later date.

The drive through Kansas and Oklahoma has been mildly uneventful. Just imagine what life is like, crusing down I-35 going no faster than 57mph. That’s right folks…With all the weight we are hauling, our little truck (we named it “Meat” - long story) couldn’t make it up to even 60. So…if you have never enjoyed the KS Turnpike at 55mph, you have simply NOT LIVED!

We left the metro around 6:30pm and it is now, according to the official Holiday Inn time, 2:32am. So…8 hours to OKC! In all honesty, it flew by so fast and we are going to sleep in until about 9am tomorrow. Oh, also after getting everything loaded, I decided there was no WAY we are unloading all our stuff ourselves tomorrow. So, thanks to Robert at 2 Men & a Truck, all our belongings will be professionally carried in by a moving team and we will sit in lawn chairs with umbrella drinks and watch them sweat. As for Chris, he’s asleep - our cats are sniffing around the room and I’m about to go beat up our extremely loud neighbors (all in love and kindness of course.)

Thank you for your prayers…

Much love,
Chris & Anne


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Texas · Travels

Prayers & Stuff
Posted on March 24th, 2006 @ 4:53 am

It is a glaringly early 4:50am (We woke up at 4:30). The plan was to finish packing last night, but our going away shindig lasted about an hour and a half later than planned and we didn’t get home until shortly after 10:30pm. It was AMAZING and we were blown away by how many people from the last four years came to send us off. Thank you all SOOO MUCH. I will post pictures later.

Anyway, we were just mentally, emotionally & physically exhausted after getting home, so we went to bed and woke up early to tie up loose ends. It is gonna be one long day…some minor packing, loading up everything, and making the 350 mile drive to Oklahoma City to stay the night.

Please pray (and ask your friends to pray!):
-SAFETY as we travel
-ENERGY as we move
-PATIENCE as we deal with each other and our cats on less than 4 hours of sleep
-SURPRISES in our day to remind us God is with us (hey, it doesn’t hurt to ask!)

Thanks much…

Chris & Anne


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Texas · Travels

Goodbye, Kansas.
Posted on March 23rd, 2006 @ 8:07 am

I think yesterday, it hit me that we are leaving tomorrow. It feels like the four years and 5 months I have spent in Kansas City have gone by so fast. Of course, it seemed like I’ve been here forever not knowing when an end would be in sight, but now it feels like I moved here, blinked, and now I’m moving back to Texas.

There have been so many people I’ve tried to say goodbye to in the last three days. Coffee twice on Monday, dinner with some close friends on Tuesday, and yesterday, lunch with a friend, coffee (well, I had water) with another friend right after that, then a long Italian dinner from great wine, to great pasta, to a great dessert with another wonderful friend. Tonight is our going away party and from what the RSVP list says it’s going to be a rough night - lots of friends, old & new, young & old…oy vey. And there are so many people I want to get to spend time with alone and there just aren’t enough hours left…As much as Kansas is cold & boring, the relationships I have here have meant more to me than anyone could ever know.

I still have a little packing to do, and I’m not sure when I might be online next….at the latest, Friday night at the hotel in Oklahoma City.

Goodbye, Kansas.


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Moving · Texas

Top Five Things
Posted on March 21st, 2006 @ 4:59 pm

The top five non-relational things I will miss about Kansas City:

5. Snow (it’s pretty to look at anyway, and yummy to eat)
4. No traffic problems
3. The colors of autumn
2. Trees, hills & other nature type things
1. The Country Club Cafe (Also known as the location for our going away party, Thursday from 7-9pm. I hope you can come!)

Now that I am done grieving, the top five non-relational things I look forward to in Dallas:

5. Warm weather
4. A variety of good eateries, markets, galleries, clubs, bands, cafes, shopping….
3. Dallas Museum of Art & the Aquarium (I know that’s technically two)
2. IKEA
1. Sundance Square in Fort Worth

(If I went into relational things, there wouldn’t be enough time in the world to read all I need to write…)


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A Nagging Question
Posted on March 19th, 2006 @ 2:02 pm

Over the last year and a half - maybe longer - I have been plagued with a nagging question that leaves my spirit restless and the more I pray…the more I seek…the more I try and listen…the more the restlessness refuses to leave, begging me to keep praying, keep seeking, and keep listening.

My background is in communication design. Anything having to do with visually communicating a message is where my natural niche resides. I promote and advertise anything because it’s what I naturally do.

Since in the last few years I’ve been fulfilling that role in as a vocational church employee, I often walk the line between what is necessary as far as “marketing the church” and “is this necessary at all?” I struggle because marketing, in the sense of advertising, happens whether it is intentional or not. And I struggle because having intentional plans is a good thing, even when it comes to the message of the church.

But has the local church taken church marketing too far?

I did a Technorati search on “Church Marketing” and came across this blog. John O’Keefe writes:

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, our pastor is handsome”
it is not easy to sell, “come to a faith that tells you to love the unlovable”

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have great music”
it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith that seeks you to be silent”

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have some great programs”
it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith that tells you you must be active in reaching the needs of others”

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have a wonderful and clean building - with a ton of parking”
it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith where we will meet on a hill side, and you will need to walk five miles to get there”

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, God loves you”
it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to God, and by doing so love others - even to the cost of your life”

it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we love america”
it is hard to sell a faith that says, “live for the kingdom of God, and love those who hate you.”

I couldn’t have said it better myself.

As a marketer, I see the need for target markets, for knowing your audience, and other marketing principles you learn. But as a Christ-follower, I often wonder if by marketing the church, we’ve bowed down to the American consumeristic mindset which has evolved into a slogan-filled, attention-grabbing, who can come up with the most polished looking piece of marketing collateral-tsunami.

Isn’t our target market PEOPLE? Does it really matter if those people are ages 30-45 with an annual household income of $85,000, with 2.5 kids and a dog who shop at Pottery Barn and eat at Panera? Does the gaping hole in their soul, longing for a Love really exist soley after the fact their houses cost $190,000 and they drive a minivan? Can’t the love of God shine through our lives more than a four-color, glossy, die-cut postcard?

I think we have it backwards sometimes. I really, really do.


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