the hypocrisy of worship

4.10.2008 | Church, Hmmmm

please understand that i seriously over analyze everything - especially words. i’m from the belief that words shape everything, so their importance is paramount.

with that disclaimer in tact, please let me say…

every time i hear the words “worship was off the hook tonight” (and not merely because they said “off the hook”…we’ll save that 80s catch phrase for a later discussion) or “i can’t wait to worship this weekend” i literally feel my stomach do this awkward knotting up thing.

i truly wonder if as a modern day church culture we are reshaping the true meaning of worship with our words…which then leads us to reshape the true meaning of worship in our lives.

and honestly, i think we take this issue too lightly. i know i’m not the first to bring it up or wonder about it. but within our own church bubble, we almost repeatedly chant, “we know worship is a lifestyle…we know worship is a lifestyle…”

do we? do we really?

god does not take empty worship, or even ceremonial worship, lightly. when i was working on my book, i studied a lot about the different forms of sacrifice and their meanings. it is almost spooky how old testament sacrifices parallel to the things we say today.

amos 5:21-22 says,

“I hate, I despise your religious feasts; I cannot stand your assemblies. Even though you bring me burnt offerings and grain offerings, I will not accept them. Though you bring choice fellowship offerings, I will have no regard for them.”

burnt offerings were a sacrifice that said “i’m giving everything to you.” it was the only offering that nobody ate afterward. the entire animal was consumed by fire (devotion, dedication) and the smoke offered to the heavens (offering upward to god).

the israelites said they were completely dedicated to god. they sacrificed entire animals in order to prove it. but god saw their hearts. and he would have none of it.

how often do we say “god, take all of me?” but it’s just because we feel like we need to say that?

empty worship. god sees it.

micah 6:8 defines what god requires for true worship of him.

“He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God”

how many times do we get this backwards?

step 1: get people to a weekend service.
step 2: encourage them to “feel” the song.
step 3: inspire their hearts to fully unite and engage with the father’s love for others.


the heart comes before the words.
before the song. and well before the weekend service.

compassion

(painting by scott erickson)

::edit:: nathan points us to this incredible song by jon foreman that was just put up today that addresses the same issue.

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Responses

Clayton Bell
4.10.2008


In the word of What About Bob: “Ow, Ow…I think you can help me!” Keep pushing us, don’t let us off the hook, Anne.

And can I say how much I love the fact you have a category called “Hmmmm?”

Danny
4.10.2008


I don’t think it’s a reshaping of worship with words. I think you nailed it with your last line of the post. It’s a heart problem. This is happening all over right now. In some cases, it’s a doctrine problem, but 99.9% I’d say is a heart problem.

You’re right, you see this same issue all through Scripture. I believe the majority of the people at church sicken God with the way we compartmentalize our lives. Worship here, the rest of life there.

Thanks for the post.

Shawn
4.10.2008


Aren’t we all really hypocritical worshipers? We talk about “living the life”. Heck, we sing about it!

And yet, I see the guy from the mission down the street walking in the rain and do I stop to pick him up? No, he might stink up my car.

What about the old lady who can barely walk hobbling to the Dollar General? Good luck, I’ve got to get home to check email and *work on that new song arrangement for this Sunday’s worship*.

Wow, thanks for rockin’ up my world this Thursday. Blech. I make myself sick sometimes.

Kent Shaffer
4.10.2008


Amen.

mandy
4.10.2008


dang

Dustin
4.10.2008


i agree - and i also think we compartmentalize worship into 4 songs for 15 minutes on the weekend when worship can be found and grown in EVERYTHING we do.

working, writing, cleaning, speaking, teaching…

krysta
4.10.2008


just had this conversation with the band at mosaic. we read romans 12:1 before practice. funny it doesn’t mention anything about singing in regards to worship. the amos verse you quoted … definitely read that with kim on our way to passion a few years ago … ha. it was pretty funny. little bit of a slap in the face, but humorous nonetheless.

since moving to l.a. i have battled the battle of figuring out what worship means to me since we don’t sing chris tomlin, david crowder and hillsong united at mosaic. i’ve been forced to come to grips with the fact that i worship worship (as defined by music and the sunday service). sad.

we actually had a girl tell our artisans director that she sits in her car and listens to “real” worship music before she comes and hears erwin talk because she doesn’t feel our songs are anointed. has it really come to this? this whole discussion about worship is the exact reason my skin crawls when i hear the word christian … ha… and i’ve been the epitome of it for years.

“offer my life as a living sacrifice, which is the spiritual way to worship.” (romans 12)

so glad God is having this conversation with both of us this week :)

Anne Jackson
4.10.2008


Krysta that is funny…that Romans 12 verse is the verse I head into in the book after talking about the sacrifices of ol’.

John Ireland
4.10.2008


anne, i believe this is one of your strongest posts on this blog! :) well said…

in line with your challenge:

- why is the word “just” so common in prayer?
- don’t we often soften God’s intent for holiness?
- do we TRULY desire to be set apart for the Lord (for those who are Christ followers)? (read Dallas Willard’s treatment of this or read about John Wesley’s early “small groups”)

i suspect many mean that they look forward to corporate worship when they make the statements you mentioned. but, i also believe many of us have lost our way when to comes to how we (Christ followers) are to be set apart for the Lord (”hrm” in Hebrew).

love this topic…

David Ballard
4.10.2008


Wow! What a topic. This is one of a few reasons why I’ve taken a hiatus from leading worship. I needed a break from viewing it more as a task or job than a joy and privilege. I was beginning to feel like the people were worshiping the worship instead of God. People can get hooked on feelings and do whatever it takes to feel that way again (like drugs but maybe not as expensive). Some people choose their church more for the worship than the teaching/preaching/messages. It’s like a free weekly concert in some instances. We cater to the musical needs of the masses and sometimes never really connect. Bob Sorge has a relatively new book called “Following the River” that addresses a lot of these issues. In the last few weeks I’ve begun walking at the park, a few of those mornings have been some of the best ‘worship’ experiences I’ve had. And I wasn’t even playing the keys, there were no words with swirling video behind them on a screen. It was just God and me. It was incredible. I’m working on redefining worship in my life and it’s a great topic for all of us to investigate. I cringe when I look at worship leaders who have to act more like cheerleaders to get people in the audience to do anything. Perhaps there’s some unspoken pressure on worship leaders and teams to get people to a place mentally and spiritually to “prepare their hearts” for the message. You’ve got people of all ages and backgrounds coming together. Some might have just been fighting in the car on the way to church. Some are depressed or even suicidal. Some are worrying about their electric bill and whether they should pay their tithes. Lots of things on lots of minds… Worship leaders may feel obligated to pull them all in to the whole “one mind, one accord” thing. I love this topic. It’s deep. It’s relevant. It’s necessary to discuss and ponder. Thanks!

Jeff M. Miller
4.10.2008


Anne, thanks for this. I have struggled with this reality for years, in the sense that once I finally got a glimpse that worship was more than just music on Sun. morn, I’ve tried to get others to see if from that perspective as well.

It is really the whole reason I started blogging in the first place, to try and share what worship is really all about.

Here’s one thing I do know, and it’s something we’re trying to constantly remind ourselves as a staff. Our responsibility as leaders is to shepherd people into an authentic relationship with Christ, not just one that looks good on the outside, but that is fully active and realized on the inside. Part of this is leading people to be spiritually disciplined. However, it is not our job to make sure they are actually working out their salvation, that’s between them and their Lord. We are called to be servant-leader-encouragers.

This applies to our worship as well. It may be that we sometimes are leading people who resemble Amos 5, but we need to stand up like Moses did and be strong leaders, leaders by service, submission and example. Those who will follow will follow.

Vince
4.10.2008


Very well said Anne.

What are you prepared to do?

Jonathan
4.10.2008


This is good stuff, Anne. There is an interesting thought in Jeremiah 7 along these lines:

This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the LORD : “Stand at the gate of the LORD’s house and there proclaim this message:” ‘Hear the word of the LORD, all you people of Judah who come through these gates to worship the LORD. This is what the LORD Almighty, the God of Israel, says: Reform your ways and your actions, and I will let you live in this place. Do not trust in deceptive words and say, “This is the temple of the LORD, the temple of the LORD, the temple of the LORD!” If you really change your ways and your actions and deal with each other justly, if you do not oppress the alien, the fatherless or the widow and do not shed innocent blood in this place, and if you do not follow other gods to your own harm, then I will let you live in this place, in the land I gave your forefathers for ever and ever. But look, you are trusting in deceptive words that are worthless.

Apparently, “This is the temple of the LORD, the temple of the LORD, the temple of the LORD” was a slogan that people used at the time. “We’ve got our temple, so we’re okay.” Like any number of worship/church slogans we’ve all heard and probably sung.

tony
4.10.2008


unfortunately we also spend a lot of time pontificating this point - and doing little to change it

Anne Jackson
4.10.2008


What am I prepared to do?

My husband and I have been reevaluating what the role of “worship” looks like in our lives.

Empty music and words have no place in our lives (music and words do, but it’s a matter of looking into our hearts in order to define “empty”).

We talk about this. We challenge each other on it. We challenge others on it.

Do I over analyze it? Maybe. But I think it’s worth it.

Judith Thomas
4.10.2008


In service last night, our pastor spoke about the importance of the “common hours”. Meaning, the hour we spend in the spotlight on stage on Wednesdays and Sundays pales in comparison to what we are doing in our “common hours”.

I love the term “common hours” it.

Nathan Horton
4.10.2008


A new song by Jon Foreman deals with this exact thing. Check out the video

Judith Thomas
4.10.2008


Oh yeah, My pastor also said something powerful and convicting:

“Christians don’t say lies, they sing them…”

Rich Kirkpatrick
4.10.2008


You should read my Worship Mythbusters series at the RKWL where I say that “worship is a lifestyle” is a MYTH. Meaning, I think we are not valuing the joyful communal experience of worship and think everything else is worship. If worship is everything, the worship is NOTHING. So, the act and spiritual discipline of coming to offer your life is good–and a joy. I think some are like David’s wife and feel angry at people feeling free and joyful in expressing worship. Worship naked.

Sure, there are a lot of sinful people in the pews like you and me and some perhaps not getting it. But, really I think there are also a lot of people simply not understanding the woman who anointed Jesus’ feet…they could have used the perfume to feed the poor, but Jesus also demands our devotion and affection. Why is that a bad thing? Why is enjoying being with God together a bad thing? I fear legalism is the why.

Phil Thompson
4.10.2008


We had a church split over this “worship” issue.

rc
4.10.2008


It’s not an either/or, but a both/and deal. Worship is a communal response of God’s people gathered to celebrate His goodness and mercy. But unless it is the culmination of a bunch of life lives in the awareness that all of life is worship, our Sunday expressions fall short.

We worship corporately out of what we worship individually.

Anne Jackson
4.10.2008


But is has very little to do with music on a Sunday.

Worship is so very much more. Gatherings are so very much more.

Kenyon
4.10.2008


I am guilty of this view. This will take sometime for me to process and see how it works out in every aspect of my life. But I guess that is what it is all about. Allowing God to touch every part of my life, everyday and in everyway.

Jeff M. Miller
4.10.2008


This is why I suggest everyone read “Celebration of Discipline” by Richard J. Foster. Not only does he step through each of the disciplines and show how each of them is and can be and act of worship, but his chapter on worship within the church body is fantastic.

Corporate worship, which might or might not include music, is just the overflow of a church that’s been worshiping as individuals all through the week. It’s a small glimpse of heaven.

rc
4.10.2008


Anne,
I think if the music is connected to the life lived in awareness of how good God is, then I think it can have something to do with the music.

I also agree that many sundays in many places what happens is that we “sing prom songs to Jesus” as Mark Driscoll says, and nothing much more happens.

Worship is more than just the music, but it does not preclude music from being part of the worship. Sometimes our songs are just songs and sometimes they are worship. It’s the condition of the heart that makes the difference.

Well that’s my story and I’m stickin’ to it :)

Rich Kirkpatrick
4.10.2008


WORSHIP is about the music…too

100 times in the Bible “sing to the Lord”

2000 years of history

and Biblical worship always had music in some form…so

it is not really correct to say it has “little” to do with music… I think bashing the music is an easy way out of trying to wrestle with the fact that we “worship worship” which has nothing to do with music and more to do with theology and our understanding in what we are doing.

TD
4.10.2008


Great post Anne!

I have started to think of worship this way. It literally means worth-ship, or giving something its true worth. When all we do is sing songs during church services then we’re saying God is only worth an hour of our time each week.

Obviously God is worth more than we could ever describe, but I think He wants us to tell Him how much He’s worth to us. I’ll confess that I often don’t do a very good job with this. But sadly, I sure do give worth to a lot of other things.

Anne Jackson
4.10.2008


Music does…but I still believe the only thing that is required (Romans 12) is a living sacrifice. If I am not living my life as a sacrifice, holy and pleasing to him, I can sing all I want and it will mean NOTHING to him.

Joe Louthan
4.10.2008


When I say, “I cannot wait to go to worship this weekend” what I mean to say is “I cannot wait to go to corporate worship this weekend.”

Some of the points made in the comment have struck a chord with me.

I am reminded of what my hometown pastor said once, “What if we started taking the words we read in the Bible and the words we sing in church literally?”

Take a song like “Made Me Glad” by Hillsong.

If we sung that, would we mean every single word?

Jeff M. Miller
4.10.2008


Yeah, I’ve got to agree with Rich. Biblical worship INCLUDES music, though it is not in and of itself music. One of the “postures” of worship found in Scripture is singing.

I agree that we shouldn’t have a view of worship=music. That’s a severely anemic worship life. But don’t forget the instances in Scripture where music is a big deal. Look at the dedication of the Temple in Solomon’s day, they had an insanely huge “band” as a part of their worship. Music was not the focus of worship, but it was an integral part.

Of course, as a churchy-type musician, I can get a tad bid defensive on this subject as well. ;)

Maria
4.10.2008


Of course worship leaders/pastors will get defensive. This challenges the thing that pays your bills and feeds your need for affirmation in your calling.

What about people who can’t hear or are mute? Guess they will never truly experience “Worship” biblically.

That’s sad.

Sam.
4.10.2008


Great conversation! We’ve been - and still are - grappling with this for several months now. So much I could say…here’s just a few thoughts though:

Whatever worship is or isn’t it does need to have integrity. And that means it MUST be integrated with our whole lives. It can’t just be part of it. Worship can’t just be for the ’spiritual’ part of our lives. And, for me at least, the singing which I’m convinced IS part of being a worshipper must be the outpouring of a life the continuously worships.

Really enjoying this conversation…thanks for initiating!

rc
4.10.2008


Anne,

I’m with you on this for the most part…music does not equal worship, but I think it can be a part.

But what do you do with this (also written by Paul)?

Colossians 3:15.Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.
16.Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God.
17.And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

josh
4.10.2008


Awesome topic. I was a part of a church for a long time that truly believed that ‘worship’ on a sunday morning was to allow God the opportunity to ‘pour out anointing’ so the congregation would be more equipped to hear the pastors message. needless to say, this had some problems.

When thinking about worship in terms of the Sunday Experience, I often go back to the True Worshipper - Jesus Himself. I found that he didn’t hold a worship service before he spoke. nobody sang the opening song, there was no 20 minutes of ‘corporate worship’. Instead, He truly worshipped God with His life, and when He started speaking, people came and listened. There’s not too much in the Scriptures that talks about Jesus - or the Disciples/Apostles for that matter - singing. I’m sure they did, but most of the NT talks about what they actually did to further the Kingdom. We might be able to take something away from that.

Anne Jackson
4.10.2008


i love what matthew henry’s commentary says about that passage. it sums up what we are saying here beautifully. emphasis mine.

We must not only do no hurt to any, but do what good we can to all. Those who are the elect of God, holy and beloved, ought to be lowly and compassionate towards all. While in this world, where there is so much corruption in our hearts, quarrels will sometimes arise. But it is our duty to forgive one another, imitating the forgiveness through which we are saved. Let the peace of God rule in your hearts; it is of his working in all who are his. Thanksgiving to God, helps to make us agreeable to all men. The gospel is the word of Christ. Many have the word, but it dwells in them poorly; it has no power over them. The soul prospers, when we are full of the Scriptures and of the grace of Christ. But when we sing psalms, we must be affected with what we sing. Whatever we are employed about, let us do every thing in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in believing dependence on him. Those who do all in Christ’s name, will never want matter of thanksgiving to God, even the Father.

Jeff M. Miller
4.10.2008


Maria, not trying to argue here, but maybe I’ve not been clear enough.

I never said that music was the only way to offer Biblical worship. I just said it was part of the equation.

Basically, what I’m saying is that it is one of the many practices available to express worship. Someone who is deaf or mute has many other opportunities for expression, and my “job” as a worship leader is to do everything I can to help facilitate them in their expressions.

I’m also in complete agreement with Anne’s sentiment of being a living sacrifice. That’s where it begins. Without the living sacrifice of self, without the daily denial of self, then the music and all other forms are worthless.

I hope I’ve made that clear. Thanks.

rc
4.10.2008


Anne,

Absolutely. The dead guy is correct.

kim
4.10.2008


you’ve quoted the scripture that terrifies me the most, period. What if I’ve spent my working life striving to create… prepare… design…plan… the best worship opportunities ever? And what if I worry and pray about how we might ‘progress’ in our worship? What does that mean, exactly? When the people who gather to worship (myself included) have it backwards, as you said, we start serving a gospel of our own making.

Terrifying. I saw that someone asked you what you were prepared to do about it. That’s what I’ve been asking myself for a while now. No clear answer yet.

tony
4.10.2008


“how often do we say “god, take all of me?” but it’s just because we feel like we need to say that?

empty worship. god sees it.”

i thought anne’s ? was rather easy to spot - silly me.

it seems if anyone mentions worship the music crazies come out - for and against

anne - next time use notes, scales, and intervals, instead of letters, that’ll get ‘em.

(then, tell them it’s all math baby, it’s all math)

so, as i pontificate (and not do anything else)the depth of this discussion……………

patrick
4.10.2008


anne, thanks for the post, and the discussion it sparked.

this is a topic that has come up a lot in my life, and i struggle with the cyclical nature of forgetting my true purpose, moments of redemption, and a life of worship.

my wretched heart definitely falls short of God requires of us in micah 6:8.

Kyle
4.10.2008


It’s so easy to get caught up in the “song” or the “music” or the “lights”, and forget about the worship.

I’ve been there, we all have. You’re worshiping God, and then it hits you, you realize you’re focusing on sounding good, or singing harmony. You’re focusing on singing and you somehow forget why you’re singing.

Then we leave the church where we just had our “worship” and we forget to worship Him in our conversation, we forget to worship him in our car.

I suck at this. Truly. I aim for much greater things out of myself. I desire and want to truly worship God in my every minute walk.

This was a great topic Anne. Thanks for bringing it up. Oh and the song by Jon Foreman, great stuff. So glad Switchfoot dropped their label so that they could truly “worship” again.

Read Scott
4.10.2008


I know language is important to how we formulate ideas, but I think the use of the word “worship” to describe a gathering is for the sake of common understanding of what we’re talking about.

Lory
4.10.2008


Micah tells us to DO JUSTICE, LOVE MERCY, WALK HUMBLY WITH GOD. Jesus tells us to LOVE GOD AND YOUR NEIGHBOR…

I wonder…

If I am loving God with all I am (my gifts, abilities, talents, time, etc.) is that not worship? Isn’t worship about telling/showing God how worthy He is? What better way to do that than properly use what He has granted?

If I am loving my neighbor and seeking justice in their behalf, is that not reflecting the image of God? Isn’t a great way to tell or show someone their worth in your life to reflect them to the world around you?

Before the individual/corporate thing gets going here, let me say these thoughts are both/and. In worshipping God fully, I will seek to do these things myself, and as a church we will seek to do these things as community.

Just some muddled stirrings in me.

aaron ivey
4.10.2008


yep - great stuff!!!

Texas in Africa
4.10.2008


I’m with you on the sick feeling, but maybe for a slightly different reason. I find it almost impossible to worship in places where the service is steeped in production values and expensive equipment. Not only is it a distraction; I spend the whole time thinking about how many children could’ve been fed with the cost of that HD projector or pretty banner or high-tech sound system.

kris
4.10.2008


Hi Anne Jackson
How are you my love?

someone told me the other day that caring for infants is the highest form of worship.

Since that’s what I do all day long I can wholeheartedly agree…but for those who may never get the opportunity to care for infants I suggest we re-word it and just say

caring for other human beings is the highest form of worship.

whatcha ya think?

Miss you :))
stop by and see me sometime

Godzgal
4.10.2008


Thanks Anne. My husband are new worship leaders at our church that is being launched. That is powerful and what I needed to hear today. Are there any good books out there on this topic?? I bought one today by Rori Nolan…I hope it’s a good one…no clue.

Worship is our offerings…a living sacrifice. Are we willing to lay it all down in full surrender. Worship is a daily..minute by minute action. Full surrender and worship go hand in hand.

Jeff M. Miller
4.10.2008


Godzgal,

My 2¢ on a good book to read is “The Dangerous Act of Worship” by Mark Labberton. It goes way beyond the limits of music as worship and delves into everyday life. Real rubber meets the road stuff like servanthood and social justice.

Mud Puppy
4.10.2008


I completely here you on this one. There are too many Christians where that Sunday thing is actually their only means of “worship.”

But I guess the problem is what do those of us who do get that worship is life actually call what happens on Sunday?

It’s just too hard to say, “Sunday’s corporate worship, which I know is totally just one part of our life of worship, brought me back a little bit to the throne of God. It inspired me to keep it up the rest of the week as I live out my total life of worship.”

Much easier to say “It was off the hook!”

:)

Isaac Downing
4.10.2008


It’s so good to hear other people discussing this.

Preach it, sista.

Danny
4.10.2008


People are asking for literature on this subject. This is a great read: Music Through the Eyes of Faith - Harold Best

I’m also posting my theology of Worship on Wednesday at http://www.dannypoyner.com. Fits right in with this.

Tyler
4.10.2008


well said anne.

Couldn’t agree more.

Shanda
4.10.2008


This is a great post, but I have to confess, I got distracted by the art at the end. It is so powerful to me.

I know that I am learning everyday what it means to live a life of worship. I am learning that I can only speak for myself and what is in my heart. So often I am guilty of singing empty songs, and then experience true worship in completely random places. It’s not about the setting, but the condition of my heart.

Kris, I too have changes diapers for Jesus!

Jon
4.10.2008


My brain’s too fried to add a thoughtful comment, other than I agree. I think that’s why I’m so passionate about the “missional” side of church. We’ve got to be outside of the walls of the church, living life, following Jesus, serving others, diving into messy relationships. There’s worship there that goes far beyond an emotional high.

I love worship music, but I’m realizing that if people see worship as the good feelings they get when they sing songs they like, we’ve actually done them a disservice.

krysta
4.10.2008


i’ve already posted, but something i think (as a “worship leader”) i need to be careful of is not getting wrapped up in the emotions that music itself invoke. music is spiritual … emotional. i remember standing on stage at my old church looking at the crowd and if they weren’t “into it” we knew the chord progression and bridges that would lead people “into the presence of God.” ok, so we didn’t actually discuss this, but we knew what to do to solicit response from the audience to set the tone, so to speak, for the rest of the service.

i think that, again, because of the very nature of the emotional connection we have with music IN GENERAL, we need to be careful not to confuse the “goosebumps” with an actual connection with the Living God.

that’s all.

candyce
4.10.2008


so many thoughts… so many, many thoughts…

i’m writing as a bivocational worship leader (maria, i don’t make a penny from leading worship) who volunteers as the leader of a church plant’s worship team while working full-time for a secular non-profit serving people living with hiv/aids. i absolutely believe that worship is ultimately about a heart that adores God and is surrendered to God. (so yes, it’s absolutely an act of worship to care about people God cares about. and yes, a mouth that sings a lot but isn’t connected to a heart that breaks for that which breaks for that which breaks God’s heart may not be truly worshiping God.) i’ll also say that it makes me cringe when someone is talking about a ‘worship style’ when they really mean musical genre. or when someone tells me after a gathering, ‘you did such a good job,’ as if i were a kid performing for a recital.

i however believe that ‘vertical disciplines’ of worship are important, especially when folks are gathered together. that can look like a lot of things - prayer, ‘experiential worship’/’sacred spaces’, yep, music. (a church in my town that’s very effective in reaching the unchurched calls singing songs during gatherings ‘prayer set to music’. i love that.) but those kinds of disciplines are really important, not just as something that pleases God, but as something that draws our hearts toward God. (and i concur with rich’s comment on the history/tradition/Biblicalness-if that’s a word-of using music to honor God.)

anne-girl (girl that i love and adore, you know that, right?), you said, ‘the heart comes before the words. before the song. and well before the weekend service.’ that’s not always true. there have been many, many times where my heart has forgotten what my theology says is true. (like a time when really struggling with some relational brokenness, and i couldn’t get through practicing the song ‘enough’ without sobbing.) and there have been many, many times where singing or listening to a song has been what helped my heart and head connect again. there have also been times when a song has helped remind me of why i engage in more ‘practical’ acts of worship. (like in brenton brown’s ‘everlasting God’: ‘You’re the Defender of the weak / You comfort those in need…’) that’s not to say that music is the be-all end-all for helping people to engage. other forms of disciplines/communal activities accomplish the same ends. the point is that there’s value in tools that help people connect on a heart (and yes, even emotional) level with God.

so i guess to sum up, music does not = worship. and music used for the purpose of worship does not = crap. ;)

Sean Pritzkau
4.10.2008


wow anne awesome discussion you have on here. You’re going to put the NY times out of business! There’s so many ways to approach this topic and it’s way too easy to offend someone or take offense. What it makes me think about is how no person can really worship God without the spirit of God residing inside of him/her. But anyone can listen to music. Music is a tool for us to worship God. It is not the only tool, and isn’t the greatest tool, and we should always worship God. For some reason I see everyone worshiping God someday, with a lot of loud music!

But heck, this is what I think and I’ve only known Christ for 3 years and I’m seventeen. I hope I have more to say in a few years.

Sunny
4.10.2008


Wow…this discussion is “off the hook.”

D Rho
4.10.2008


Wow! Loaded topic!!! Where should I start?

1. Worship = Realizing God’s Greatness
2. Sunday Service = Realizing Performance’s Greatness

It shouldn’t be, I know, and I’d even say we teach the opposite… but we’ve designed it to be taken that way: the stage, the band, the speaker, the lights, the sound, the screens, the drama…

There is a time and a place for this type of worship gathering… But week in and week out? What are we conditioning our church culture to expect and do in regards to worship?

Worship is being consumed: watched, talked about, purchased, and experienced once a week - it’s not being lived in the manner in which Jesus Christ encouraged: 24/7/365.

The real question is a heart question, but more so, it’s a question of the church fostering this kind of worship in it’s form of community… the ecclesia.

Also, worship has to become bigger than music in our churches. Music is a beautiful expression of it, but it’s only one expression.

Giving vocal thanks to God can be worship. Giving your hard-earned money can be worship. Wiping babies’ bottoms can be worship. Reading scripture can be worship. Helping old ladies find their seat can be worship. Cooking a meal can be worship. Confessing your sins to God and each other can be worship… Can you imagine someone doing this on stage every week, with similar pomp and resources that we produce our music. It seems so ridiculous doesn’t it?

Our culture idolizes music, and sadly/honeslty so does the church - until we change that.

candyce
4.10.2008


heart that breaks heart that breaks heart that breaks….

sorry for the typo. :) hope you caught the heart behind that. :) <3

Crystal Renaud
4.10.2008


i couldn’t agree more with this. i myself, have found myself saying those exact same statements (except the “off the hook” part). “man, i just really need to worship tonight” - uh what? i know that i can worship with every step i take but some reason we compartmentalize worship into this 4-5 songs at the beginning of service. you know, i happen to think that if the heart is pure and its focus is on that of the heavenlies, its worship. believe it or not, when i get my tattoo in may with you - as anti-levitical as that might be - i will surely be worshiping even then.

Crystal Renaud
4.10.2008


oops… hit enter too soon.

… believe it or not, when i get my tattoo in may with you - as anti-levitical as that might be - i will surely be worshiping even then because this tattoo represents a new relationship with my Creator. a turn in a relationship that i never want to forgot to revert from. a daily reminder to die to myself and follow Him. worship Him. with everything i am.

Yonas
4.10.2008


Anne and all,

I’m sorry, at this point I think this is becoming an argument about semantics and more nitpicking the definition than anything else. Similar to the “uncomfortable church” post.

Can’t we just go to back to the basics of why we are going to the church, fellowships with other Christians, ‘worship’, to learn from the sermon, be encouraged, be convicted and just be it??

Once in a while, yes it’s good to have a ‘hmmmm’ kinda post, but I feel that the last few posts more about discussing or posting something that just creates more banter among people (or even just for shock value), but in the end it does not encourage anybody (at least it didn’t encourage me).

How about this? Everybody (yes including me incase some want to use that argument), put in their thoughts so eloquently, but what do you do after all this discussions? Have you gained anything from it, have your attitude changed? If not, how is it different than being involved in the ‘worship’ on Sundays, but not changing our behavior the moment our car leaves the parking lot?

I’m just saying- we just have to really know at one point we cross the line from being critical (which I think is important about Christianity) to nitpicking.

My. 02…ok some of you can stone me now! :)

Terrace Crawford
4.10.2008


You are right on. I think we blow right past this. The scripture from Matthew that makes me cringe is “These people honor me with their lips but their hearts are far from me.” Yikes! Thanks for sharing this.

Maria Atchison
4.11.2008


Hi Anne:

This is my first time posting a comment. My husband Dan Atchison, led to your blog and I am so glad he did.

Worship to me is my escape from this world. Dan and I have been through two significant life storms in the past three years. Our first storm was losing our little boy,Josiah,to cancer. He passed away two years ago. I will never forget the worship moment I had in the middle of that time. I was by myself and in all my grief and anger, I worshiped. I was alone locked in my bathroom….God did something in me that day.

The second was a marital breakdown. We almost divorced, but we are now more together and in the process of counsel and healing. Worship is supernatural. It helped me cope and withstand the torrential storms that came our way.

I do not understand the whys, but somehow when I raise my arms to Heaven and immerse myself in thoughts of God, it just seems so small. I know these storms are not small, but in a supernatural way, it seems as though they cannot over take me, as long as I remain in God’s presence.

I know this sounds so far fetched, but it’s real. It’s real and authentic. Two things that I have thirsted for, but not looked in the right places. Thank you for Flowerdust!

Sincerely,
Maria

We were a family in full time ministry for 7 years when all this occurred. Now we are currently in Ireland taking a life sabbatical.

I am thankful for Flowerdust because it is real and authentic.

Sincerely,

~ Maria

Maria Atchison
4.11.2008


My apologies on the last bit of my post. I forgot to delete the last few sentences….whoops!:)

tony
4.11.2008


yonas - it sells books, that’s the point

But you know, I’ve got to add that I think churches are partly to blame for this. They produce worship services that are a complete “show”, but then they say, “this isn’t worship! worship is in the heart!” It’s distracting and confusing for people. Give me an acoustic guitar and a hymnal, any day.

John Ireland
4.11.2008


sorry if this was mentioned already, but another great text related to this topic is “The Practice of the Presence of God” by Brother Lawrence

Camey
4.11.2008


Anne,

During the years that I was ill, I was homebound mostly. Therefore, I could not go to a physical church building on Sundays or any other day/night of the week. It was unbelievable to me how many individuals told me that since I couldn’t be in the building - I was not able to worship. God used those years to really speak to me about worship. What real worship is…. Funny enough? Most of those moments came when I couldn’t move from the neck down and was totally dependent. Now, being in the best physical health ever in my life - He still is speaking to me about worship. How we are to live the moments of life worshipping Him with all of our being. It has nothing really to do with a building. It happens with breathing in/out and taking in His fragrance and pouring it back out.

Anne Jackson
4.11.2008


Lovely thoughts everyone.

Anne Jackson
4.11.2008


Yep, you know me. All I am out to do is get heated comments and sell books. I am so busted.

Dn
4.11.2008


Than why do churches call it a “worship service”? In the last year or so our “worship leader” acts more like a washed up rockstar. I think that behavior/act certainly blurs the lines for both seekers and regulars.

jimmy paravane
4.11.2008


eh. Haiti, shmaiti. I just want to fill up my jeep wrangler today, grab a bottled water and four-wheel myself all through the inner-city potholes (no need to go off-road)! Love gasoline, love water… really, REALLY LOVE the FREE AIR! Haiti is on the poor side of the world from us, right? Silly rabbit. Closing the comments on a post doesn’t stop the “inner wolf”.

Yonas
4.11.2008


I’m just saying, I don’t see the point of overanalyzing worship or any other aspects of the church (although you did mention that in the beginning of your post). I am not saying you’re all about getting bad comments (Tony can answer on his post about selling books), I am just saying that compare to the older posts (excluding sponsoring the children and the trip to Uganda), I just feel that in the past, the posts were more personal, something that’s true (either your struggle with porn, relationships, etc)..more importantly something that we can learn from.

I feel that the more recent posts are less of that and more about discusing subjective topics that don’t necessarily create any learning value for us (especially Christians).
I may sound like a hater, bu